Sean’s Negative Experience with the Ukraine Dating Tour

Dear Friends,

A few days ago, Sean has left a comment on my blog. He spoke about his negative experiences during a romance tour in Ukraine. I’ve written several times on my blog that Western men must be careful and not all Ukraine women who have a profile on a Ukraine dating site are honest and are looking for a man for marriage. Unfortunately, Sean had collected only negative experiences with Ukrainian women during his travel in Ukraine.

Life is hard sometimes and we cannot always collect only positive experiences. I know from my own experience But there are also good examples that give us hope such as Greg’s romantic and pleasing experience with Ukrainian women in Ukraine.

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Here Sean’s Negative Experience with the Ukraine Dating Tour

The problem is in the actual women on there, recruited by the website. If the women on this site look too good to be true, that’s because they do! I am 35, 6’2″, not bald, not fat, and a successful doctor in Canada. I decided to give this a chance after my ex of 3 years had left me and I wanted to try something new. Boy, was I in for a shock!

After spending about $1000 on the site and phone calls, I connected with three she sharks (not ladies as the site calls them). I traveled to Ukraine to meet them.

The first had totally lied about her English ability. She had it put it to “advanced” on her profile. She knew not a single word in English. Without telling me, she brought an Anastasia interpreter who charged $60.

They insisted on meeting at only this one restaurant, which I did just to be nice. They then ordered the most expensive items and wine on the menu, bringing the bill to $300. They suggested that I take them to another restaurant of their choice the next day (and to that I said no).

The next date turned out even worse. Even though she spoke good English, she brought her cousin again to this restaurant of her choice. Without asking me and in Russian, they ordered 8 dishes of appetizers!!! and the most expensive wine and entrees on the menu. I finally got so pissed that I got up and intended to leave. They then threatened to call the police on me and holding me hostage in the country. I threw $150 at them got the hell out of there (total bill would have been north of 300 had I stayed).

The third date did not even show up after I refused to meet her at another expensive restaurant of her choice (I suggested meeting instead at a cafe).

Don’t waste your money and stay home. Date women in your own neck of the woods. That’s my advice.
These women think of foreign men who go there as suckers. They have no intention of a relationship either. They don’t care what you look like, or what you do, they just want to take you for a hell ride and leave you feeling so empty and used at the end. To them, it’s just business and nothing more.

Sean

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Have you been also in Ukraine? What experiences have you gained with single Ukrainian women? Positive? Negative? Please share it with me and my readers!

What type of Western guys like Ukraine women?

Dear Friends,

I have to put in a good word for Ukrainians. From my experience, Ukraine women are gorgeous, easy to talk to, and aren’t just out for money. What about you? Here are a few questions to ask yourself so you know whether you are the type of western guy who likes women from the Ukraine:

Do you want a natural beauty?

To get the obvious out of the way, Ukraine women are beautiful. Western men who want a natural beauty usually love women from the Ukraine. They tend to be very natural looking and don’t pile on a lof of makeup like western women do. Imagine waking up to someone who looks as lovely in the morning as they do when you go out on the town….with a Ukrainian woman that’s reality all the time. Who wouldn’t love that?

Do you want someone who really loves you?

If you want a woman that will love you and not your wallet, you want a Ukraine woman. Growing up in the Ukraine, they know what’s really important–and it’s not how much money you have. These ladies know how to look at the man behind the money, and that is a really good feeling.

Do you like having a nice conversation?

Have you been out with a lot of western women? Then you know how much drama they can cause, often for no reason. Ukrainian women, by contrast, have sunny dispositions and tell it straight. Just speaking to them is an enjoyable experience. I know when I’m out with a woman from the Ukraine I feel a little lighter because they are so easy to talk to. They sure know how to put a smile on your face.

So if you want a sweet companion who truly loves you and isn’t too bad to look at, you definitely want to consider finding a Ukrainian woman. They are loving and radiate a sunshine from the inside out.

Ukraine Lady and Her Sexual Past

Dear friends,

Ukraine online dating services have opened the door for both men and women to meet a broader range of potential partners. Getting to know someone’s likes, dislikes, future hopes, and past regrets, are all part of the dating process. Discussing sexuality is not as taboo as it once was, but not everyone feels comfortable talking about their past sexual experiences. Sometimes it is better to leave the past behind and focus on the future.

It has been my experience that many Western men, when meeting a Ukraine lady, often want to know about her sexual history. This is not always an easy topic to discuss. People sometimes have done things in their past that they are not proud of and would rather not discuss them. It is also unreasonable for a man to expect a 30- or 40-year-old woman to still be a virgin!!! Very few men are virgins at that age and they should accept the fact that women have the same sexual needs as them. Men and women should both respect each others desire to keep that information private. Compatibility and common goals for the future are more important things to consider in a relationship.

Planning a future together is a positive way to cultivate a relationship. Asking questions that help you know more about each other should be focused on the present and not on the past. Learning if you share the same interests in foods, hobbies, the arts, spirituality, and politics is far more enlightening than learning about past acquaintances.

A Ukraine lady is interested in meeting someone who wants a serious relationship, but who will also respect her privacy and her wish to not discuss her sexual past. Men and women have similar sexual needs and neither should be judged harshly because they’re no longer virgins.

Advice For Relationship With Ukraine Women

Dear Friends,

Ukrainian dating is a hard and difficult process (I know this from my own experience :)); this holds especially true when trying to date a Ukrainian woman.

However as the old adage says, if it were easy, then everyone would be doing it. It goes without saying that dating is especially difficult for those men who have been hurt in the past by women. There are a range of emotions that likely feel that run the gamut from anger to rejection to embarrassment. However for men who are ready for a real meaningful and lasting relationship, they should know that there is a wealth of Ukraine women for marriage out there just waiting for the right man.

As stated above, while there are many available Ukraine women for marriage, a man should be aware of the many important steps that he needs to take prior engaging in a relationship with a Ukrainian woman. First, Ukrainian women can be quite particular.

This is not something that a man ought to get offended by but just part of the reality of dating someone from a different culture. Remember, Western Europe and America are rather different from the nations of the former Soviet Union in both history and culture. Those bits of realia have left an indelible mark on the women of Ukraine, so a man must be conscious of this fact.

Finally, a man must look inside himself and see if he is emotionally ready for a relationship. This is true for all women, but especially true for Ukrainian women. A relationship requires a bit of work. This is particularly true when it comes to building a long lasting bond. Such a bond cannot be established if the man carries all of his prior relationship baggage with him. He must open his heart and be trusting of his new love interest. Only then will he truly realize love with a Ukrainian woman.

One Meeting with Single Ukraine Women is Better Than 100 Emails or Phone Calls

Dear Friends,

I’ve already written that right now, you can find literally thousands of websites that provide dating services, that allow single men to meet single Ukraine women like myself :). These are a great place to start because they give you a way to connect with the women who are out there, who may be interested in getting to know you.

However, this does not mean that you can stop at this point. If you do not plan to travel to Eastern Europe at some point, you will be wasting all of your money and time. You will be spending a lot on correspondence, something that is ultimately not going to pay off. You cannot find a woman to marry simply by calling her or writing her letters. You need to meet her.

As one of the single Ukraine women who are looking for husbands, my personal opinion is that you must meet these women in order to find one that you would like to marry. You must talk with them in person. In fact, I believe that one meeting is truly better than sending one thousand emails or making one thousand telephone calls. You can use these things as tools, but they should not be your end goal. They should simply help you to decide if you want to go and pay these beautiful women a visit.

You have two basic options if you want to come to Russia or Ukraine – and, believe me, there are many women like myself who hope that you do. The first option is just that you can go on your own, taking a flight over and staying in hotels or hostels. The second option is that you can join a group tour. No matter which one you choose, I know that you will have a lot more success when you come in person.

What Do Ukraine Brides Bring Into The Marriage?

Dear Friends,

If you are like most other Western men, you have probably asked yourself why you should marry a Ukrainian woman. You may wonder what types of values she will bring along with her from the other side of the world or the other side of the continent.

I know that many of the men that I have talked to have expressed similar questions in the past; they have asked me since I am a Ukrainian woman and they thought that I was a good source to turn to for the answers. Most of all, they wanted to know that types of traditions and values the women would want to keep alive, to hold onto, when they began to create a family in their new home.

When looking for hot Ukraine brides, you can be sure that they will give you everything that you could ask for or desire in a relationship. They will give you stability and security; you will never have to wonder where your life is going or who you will end up with. They will give you companionship that lasts a lifetime. This can provide you with hope and optimism regarding your future. You can be sure that hot Ukraine brides will give you an eventful, exciting future, not one that is filled with loneliness and despair.

When you are looking for hot Ukraine brides, you can also be sure that they will give you love and support in all that you do. It is my opinion that Ukrainian women are some of the most understanding women in the world. They can see what you want, what makes you happy, and they will support you as you pursue it. The tenderness and affection that they will display in your marriage will be as wonderful as you can imagine.

Ukraine Women’s Value of Money

Dear Friends,

When you are dating a Ukrainian woman and hoping to marry her, you may be surprised by how she views money. I can tell you this as a Ukrainian woman myself :); I have seen this sort of conflict firsthand. Other women like myself tend to expect expensive gifts from the men that they are seeing. They think that these western men should give them these gifts as a way of expressing their love. When they do not get the gifts, they take it as a sign that the man does not love them as much as he says that he does.

In the west, I have noticed that men tend to be a bit more thirty. They want to hold onto their money. They want to save up what they are earning so that they have some security. As a result, they tend to think that Ukrainian women have a false idea about the value of money. They think that Ukrainian women do not respect it or know how to use it. This is not true. What they are really seeing is just the culture difference. People in Ukraine tend to spend their money, using it all up to have a good time and to get the things that they want.

In the long run, all that western men need to do is to be patient. They need to wait for the Ukrainian women to see and understand how they view money. I now have a full grasp on this in a way that I never did before. I understand what these men are thinking and what they are doing. All other Ukrainian women will come around to this point of view when they are immersed in this western culture. You just need to wait for your lovely bride to see your side of things.